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Once again thanks to priest manuka I really appreciate for what you has done. For what you have done. One day you are also going to be come mother- in -law. Need help. This article was a blessing indeed… My wife and I are currently going through some challenges…I need your prayers. Why do what everyone else does, just look down any street everyone is doing the same thing.

Life is a great adventure and having said this go and have a adventure. You get to do this but one time and you have so little of it. Sharing with someone else is still a good idea, but people change in different ways.

Just because you have the kit does not mean you have to use it. This article is beautiful. Fear of something is generally a result of pain. Pain is what we tend to avoid be that physical or emotional. We can only control ourselves to a degree and make a commitment to ourselves to be good partners and to choose wisely. What do you want in a relationship?

What do you need? What have you seen on the relationships of others that you desire. Generally broken relationships cause broken families, sexual brokenness, broken hearts and the list goes on. Healthy relationships are not free of all the above problems, they just have the commitment to make it work and to look at the self.

The self can be scary. This takes some digging. It takes planting new seeds of healthy thoughts and ideas. And it takes wise choices. Open communication. And yet some heated debate. What a great summary of what is most needed in marriages! Thank you for sharing and it was very insightful!

Thanks for this advice sir, am about to Wed but something keep on ringing in heart concerning my fiance, he do get angry quickly and always feel superior in his words. For a case of a man like this how can I copy in the journey of marriage, please I need your advice again. Same here…. Your advice will highly be appreciated Sir. Galatians New International Version NIV 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control.

Against such things there is no law. Jessy thank you so much for valuable guidance. Am married and badly undergoing spiritual ,mental changes which i see and feel should happen and vice versa. All I want to say am led by holy spirit to accept love of my life as u mentioned and finding difficult to overcome the fears and shouts of husband for having soulful love here not my husband for my real love that God gifted me with. I have lots to write Cos I need clear guidance. Am going through some challenges in my relationship of about a year… Please could we chat via email, so that I can get more guides..

Good morning, am Emmanuel from Nigeria. I really fine this article very interesting and i need more counsel in my marriage. The Joy and respect for my wife is almost gone. Please i will need your help through christ that strengthens us. Are you the one loosing the respect for your wife? Hi there, I find the entire article interesting and helpful. Is it possible to chat with you vai email? I have some marital concerns I would like some help in. Pls indcate if it is well.

Bless you. Mutual trust, feeling of true love, compassionate and affection, and respect are key to a successful marriage. A card, a dinner out, a breakfast date—whatever you can do to honor the day the two of you became a couple.

Don't let being in a hurry steal these tokens of your affection. Greet each other every single time you leave the house; you never know what can happen when you're apart. Then rejoice in the reunion when the other one comes home. Let your spouse hear you say something good about him or her to someone else.

It's sort of a thrill to hear yourself bragged on, and who doesn't need an occasional pat on the back? My gram always said it's better to laugh than to cry.

If you can look at the ridiculousness of the moment instead of freaking out every time something goes awry whether it's lost luggage, flooded basements, or clogged sinks!

Know when to take a break and visit with friends or nurture your own interests. Because, yeah, sometimes we all do get on each other's nerves. Absence can make the heart grow fonder and reset the ticker on your patience. It's not the most uplifting experience to try to talk to you partner when he's surfing the web or texting.

Establish a tech-free zone or time when you interact with each other and do real things in the real world: Go watch a sunset. Listen to the birds sing. Take a walk. Do anything together but stare at your phones.

Not all the time. But occasionally let the other person choose an activity or movie, even if it's one you don't particularly enjoy. There's comfort in the familiar, but there's a sense of excitement in finding new hobbies and activities to share. Take a day trip to place you've never visited. Sign up for salsa lessons. Try a restaurant on the other side of town. Reliving good memories will make you laugh, kindle feelings of contentment that you've come this far, and remind you why you like each other in the first place.

Below are some important keys to work on each day to make your marriage successful. Talking with your spouse is one of the best ways to keep your marriage healthy and successful. Be honest about what you're feeling, but be kind and respectful when you communicate. Part of good communication is being a good listener and taking the time to understand what it is your spouse wants and needs from you. Keep the lines of communication open by talking often, and not just about things like bills and the kids.

Share your thoughts and feelings. Appreciate each other, your relationship, your family, and your lives together. Show gratitude when your partner cooks dinner, helps the kids with their homework, or does the grocery shopping. It may help to take a few minutes each evening to tell each other at least one thing you appreciated that day.

With work and family responsibilities, it can be easy to lose the romance factor. Plan special dates, either to go out or just stay at home. This can include eye contact, holding hands, hugging, sitting close together, massaging one another. Emotional Closeness Emotional closeness will help couples get to know and understand each other more deeply and also have empathy for each other.

It involves being open with each other about feelings, thoughts, beliefs, values, hopes, worries, fears, dreams and ambitions.



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